We don't really have a memorial as such but when we visit Sophie's grave we make a big deal. Each birthday is showered with special cakes and balloons... but every time we go we take something special for her as if she were here and asking for toys!
Having no idea what the right thing to do
was we chose a baby area at Rookwood in Sydney for her as we knew other mums,
dads and family would visit the area and we found that comforting. There are always toys, photos and special
items left for the bubbas. One thing we did start was windmills and I love
arriving and seeing all the colours moving in the breeze. It’s our special gift